There really are only two safe, effective topics to talk to women about
in a social situation. The first is easy. You talk about her. And by
talk I really mean you don’t say anything except leading questions.
Women will talk for hours about themselves this way. Afterward, they
will think you are the most brilliant conversationalist in the entire
world. However, you can’t comment, editorialize, or even share similar
experiences with her about anything she says. Her attitude is "who the
hell are you to comment on my life?" It doesn’t really matter if the
comment is good or bad, lol. It’s fucked up, but it is what it is. The
second thing that is effective when talking with women is to bust their
balls in a teasing, light-hearted, humorous way. This is very difficult
to do (ie, it’s a specialized skill that you learn with practice)
without crossing a line and outright insulting them. But, if you do it
right, it has the opposite effect of saying something complimentary to
her. She assumes her status is lower than yours. Then she feels
flattered that someone who is higher status than her is bothering to
talk to her. The really screwed up ones will respond positively to rude,
degrading and insulting behavior for this reason (must it be said that
you want NOTHING to do with any woman like that).
The last thing to know about talking to women in situations like this is
your body language. There are several techniques in controlling your
own body language that make you look open, non-threatening, and at the
same time, being on sexual display. Although you cannot control who
becomes attracted to you, when you do this, the odds are that someone,
sometimes several someones, will become attracted to you when you do
this. Don’t approach any woman at all. Instead, only talk to women who
approach you. Usually, one will. The one who does so first will usually
be the one who is most desperate (and usually married, ugly, or
otherwise inappropriate……low on the pecking order) And all the others
will be carefully examining how you act with her. Act appropriately and
she will eventually go away and someone higher up on the food chain will
approach you.
Men, in these situations, are just hanging out, bonding, gabbing,
whatever. But women. Women are engaging in something complicated and
specific with unwritten, yet rigid, rules of behavior. Break the rules
and you will be ostracized. And common sense doesn’t apply.
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Related:
Bonecrcker #58 – Women Are Narcissistic and Self Absorbed
Bonecrcker #126 – A Woman’s Need To Talk Is One Of The Key Methods Of Manipulating Them
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